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Glad you clicked on my link because I am really eager to share this post. A while back I received this anonymous post submission titled, “How sex in a relationship is the ultimate sign of love and intimacy.” I was immediately intrigued, but the submission got buried under others and I am just now returning to it.
I am so excited to post it because I want to ask something of you, person who is reading this: I wanna hear what you think about this opinion. It exists in a pretty black and white world of right and wrong, and that typically is not how I think about things. So, while I could write a super long response post myself, I figured I would pose the original submission to all of you and ask for your thoughts. I want to feature as many thoughts as possible! And don’t worry, I will reveal where I stand in a later post along with all of your opinions as well.
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Without further ado, here is an anonymous opinion on sex, love and intimacy…
how sex in a relationship is the ultimate sign of love & intimacy
Sex isn’t something that we should be shying away from. After all, whether you like to believe it, it is something that everyone you know over a certain age will have done. Not always something you want to think about we know, but the truth is that it is.
Sex, in its most basic form comes from our primal instincts, it is a method of mating, it is a way to expand and grow our species. But for humans, unlike so many other animals out there in our world, sex is also for fun. For pleasure. For satisfaction.
This is why so many people find themselves falling into the trap of casual sex. Now, don’t get me wrong, from time to time we have all indulged in some form of casual carnal relations, and I am sure that in the majority of times this has been just what was needed. However, on along term basis, you may find that this approach to sex isn’t cutting it anymore. So, what then?
Well, what comes next is getting yourself a relationship. Sex within a relationship is an entirely different experience than sex in a casual fling. But why is this? What makes sex in a relationship more than just about satisfying a need?
The thing that you need to think about is that sex and being intimate with someone are two different things. When you have sex with someone, you are thinking about your own needs, it is a purely physical act and one that might feel great, but isn’t going to move mountains or create those magical fireworks.
When you have sex with someone that you love, it takes on a whole new vibe. You will be thinking about how best to make the experience better for them, to pleasure them as well as yourself. You will feel a deeper, almost spiritual connection with them and this has to be one of the most amazing feelings ever.
A healthy sex life is important for any relationship to survive. However, what you need to remember is that you can be intimate with one another, without falling into bed. Share interests, share stories, cuddle up and simply grow together, and you will find that you feel more connected than you ever would simply by having sex. What could be better than that?
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